Joyce would tell me, some people like to hold their grudges. They will polish it, nurse it, feed it, all just to let it grow bigger. On days that you have nothing to do, you take it out, slowly remind yourself about what happened. On days that you meet people, and if you are lucky, that person who will be so in favour to help you pump it bigger. So, you ended up getting angrier than you already are!
I so agree that it happens a lot to many people.
But what's the point? Isn't life a lot easier if you just forgive and forget? If you hold it for such a long time, it'll only make your life miserable. Not the one you are angry at. Hence, the only one paying for it will be you.
There are many small things that people can be angry of. But if you want to mind about every single small thing, I think you will spend your life being angry to everyone.
Why am I posting this?
I guess I wanna tell the whole world that the petty fella (aka me) actually learned to forgive and forget. Really. Not very long ago someone said that I'm not worth it. If I were me a few years ago, I bet I will never talk to that someone anymore. But I guess I grew up.
I've learned to not say things if you have nothing nice to say.
I've learned that complaining will not make anything better except to annoy the hell out of everyone else.
I've learned that if you want something, you have to ask.
I've learned that a little forgiveness can go a long long way.
I know I am far from being wise, but I'll continue to learn. Will you?
